My Secret Weapon for Overcoming Writer’s Block

An overhead shot of a writing desk, containing a pen, a pad of paper and a cup of coffee.If there is one tool that has helped me (or saved me, if you prefer) as a writer throughout my life, it’s placeholders.

When working on the draft version of a masterpiece, who hasn’t stopped and stared off into the distance, asking themselves, “What’s that word I’m looking for?”

It could be a more impactful word, a name, a place or a date. Sometimes it’s deciding what to name a new character that suddenly shows up like an unexpected guest while the story is being written.

The problem is when that process of pausing and staring off into the distance and going through the mental Rolodex doesn’t yield immediate answers. In particular, it’s when a few seconds turns into a few minutes or longer.

The challenge is when that little pause turns into a longer pause and the rest of the ideas stop flowing, becoming into a full-fledged shutdown.

…Writer’s block. It happens.

Having been in that situation often enough over the years, I had to figure out a solution, especially when there was an assistant at the door to my cubicle, tapping their toe waiting for a last-minute re-write of a response to an email that started with “Sorry for the short notice on this but…”

I was never scared off by literary emergencies like that. I actually thrived in them. I just needed to find a solution that maximized my output of ideas, maintained my flow and deferred any perceived obstacles.

Time has taught me that when more of the masterpiece has been created, with more context, my mental Rolodex kicks in just a little later with the perfect word. So if that’s how my mind works, why not work with that instead of against it?

To me, the answer is to only allow that moment of idling to last a few seconds.

The answer is to keep going, move on and continue as if I didn’t get stuck.

Moments of inspiration are very precious and can be easily sidetracked by any number of distractions. Word choice should not be one of them, otherwise many first drafts would never see the light of day as a final product.

However, dear friends, the danger is to forget to go back and to fill in the gap. For that reason, I leave a placeholder.

The placeholder can be whatever the writer wants it to be. It can be three dots. It can be the word “placeholder” itself. It could be TBD (“to be determined”). It could even be the word “pineapple” (Note: only applicable in a story not involving pineapples).

The point is to choose a placeholder completely out of context to the story to ensure that it stands out during the review and editing process.

In using placeholders, I have been able to keep drawing from the well of inspiration to keep tackling the other “knowns” of the story, and worrying later about the unknowns.

The first draft is about getting the ideas down. Word choice does not have to be perfect in round 1.

Later, with more of the story written and more context established, the perfect word usually finds me without as much struggle and without dwelling on that one word to the point of creating a dam of ideas.

It may sound simple, but in some of the collaborative writing assignments over the years, it drove me absolutely bonkers (sometimes to the point of exasperation) to see brilliant colleagues stuck on one word and production grinding to a standstill. Sometimes the suggestion of a placeholder worked, and sometimes it didn’t… human nature is what it is.

Placeholders have helped me to get out of my own way and to maintain my cadence, dealing with the easy words and ideas first, tackling the more challenging ones and the final polish later.

In doing so, placeholders have helped me to speed up production, to maintain confidence and to reach the finish line of written projects more expediently.

I guess those pressure cooker moments at the office paid off after all, in helping me find a solution to occasional writer’s block and in keeping the ideas flowing.

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A Note of Thanks to Neighbourhood Libraries

A photo of a table and chairs, surrounded by shelves of library booksWhenever I hear news about city budget shortfalls and the consideration of library services as a possible target of cuts, it saddens me.

Some might rationalize that a decline in foot traffic or a decline in the number of loans might make a case for a reduction in hours or even in the complete closure of a branch. I disagree. I honestly cannot imagine a community without a library.

Discussions like that tend to spur on memories of the countless hours I spent at my own neighbourhood library in my pre-teen and teen years.

We were so fortunate that there was a branch just three blocks away from the house where I grew up. That being the case, I could be found there a couple of times per week, especially through the summer months when school was out.

In a moment that may sound like a scene from an episode of “Young Sheldon”, I’ll never forget getting up on my tiptoes to stand taller over the circulation counter, attempting to drop my voice by an octave and asking the librarian if there was a minimum age to be able to go into the adult section.

Just to clarify, when I say “adult section”, I don’t mean materials that would be inappropriate for a pre-teen. I mean the collection of books that isn’t aimed at children or young adults. Continue reading

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Boundary-Setting and Avoiding Spoilers

a 1970s style portable televisionHave you ever tried staying off your devices and social media to avoid spoilers about a show or an event that you haven’t watched yet? I surprised myself recently in discovering just exactly how difficult that can be.

I wouldn’t consider myself addicted to social media, my phone or my iPad by any stretch of the imagination. I can definitely go a few hours without looking at any of them and not feel the slightest sense of missing out. I do it all the time when I am deeply in the creative zone.

In the years that I have been writing, interruptions have been my kryptonite that have been known to break my flow. That being the case, with so many writing projects in the queue, why would I get in my own way and check my phone between paragraphs? Why would I subject myself to the negative energy of articles that the algorithms have mistakenly assumed that I want to look at? If those aren’t a buzzkill for creativity, I don’t know what is.

This past weekend was the grand finale of the Eurovision Song Contest, an event that I have followed for almost 20 years. Throughout that span of time, I don’t recall its schedule conflicting with North America’s Mother’s Day weekend, but this year it did. Continue reading

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Relax! It’s Costco

an antique cash registerWhen it comes to Costco, I feel a huge sense of gratitude for the wide range of products they offer, and often, at staggeringly good prices.

But to be able to take full advantage of my visits, I did not realize the number of rules I had set for myself whenever a trip to Costco was on the agenda.

Who knew that my algorithm for going to Costco could be so lengthy?
– Did I get a solid 8 hours of sleep?
– Did I have my 2 morning coffees?
– Have I recently completed a meal to avoid being “hangry”?
– Are there enough items on the list to truly warrant a trip to Costco?
– Which Costco location should have all the products on the list?
– Can I avoid shopping on a weekend?
– Can I avoid shopping in the afternoon?
– Can I avoid shopping on the Friday of a long weekend?
– Can I avoid shopping on a government pay week?

It’s not Costco’s fault. It’s the energy that I pick up from some of the other shoppers that keeps me off balance.

For example, there are shoppers who have an astounding sense of creativity when it comes to rules of the road in the aisles. I marvel at their mastery of driving their carts in diagonal lines, performing 180 degree turns with no advance notice and who seem to embody pure randomness, keeping their fellow shoppers constantly guessing. Continue reading

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How’s The Script Coming Along?

A close up shot of a computer keyboardWhen I retired from my government career, there was no doubt in my mind that I wanted to write, given the number of story ideas bubbling in my subconscious.

At about the eight-month mark, after clearing “The Backlog of Backlogs”, time and space finally opened up for me to venture boldly into the world of fiction. My first mission was to learn more about the screenwriting process itself.

I had already invested in a few books about screenwriting and was finally able to sit down and devour them, cover to cover. My reading was complemented by Master Class videos presented by renowned screenwriters, describing in glorious detail their creative processes. Next, I took to YouTube to find interviews with other writers to hear their personal stories about the process and the business.

After an intensive crash-course month, I felt that I had enough building blocks to get started. After all, it wasn’t like I was writing for the first time. In my back pocket I had a rich 33-year career of writing a variety of communication products, from different points of view, for different target audiences, under the tutelage of amazing mentors. Continue reading

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Cooking and Baking for Relaxation

Shortly after discovering a pretty major food intolerance about 15 years ago, I quickly realized that I needed to brush up on my cooking and baking skills. A person can get bored pretty quickly on a rotation of just three “safe” dishes: shepherd’s pie, chili con carne and grilled chicken breast with a tossed salad.

I consider myself a pretty good short order cook with a natural curiosity for trying different food combinations. That being the case, removing wheat from my diet was not a catastrophe to me. In fact, I think it just spurred on my curiosity even more.

I just had to make time to practice more, to locate recipes that appealed to me and to test them until I got the desired results.

At first it was a bit stressful to explore a world without wheat and flour, especially when some of the resulting dishes didn’t look anything like the picture and tasted like cardboard. But eventually, some reliable go-to recipes emerged and things fell into place.

But along the way, I made another discovery. During that incubation period of trying new recipes, I found that cooking and baking can have a relaxing effect on me. Continue reading

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The Never-Ending Hunt for Points and Rewards

A stack of reward cards from loyalty programsIn 2016, I wrote a blog post called “With This Many Loyalty Cards, How Loyal Can You Be?”

The story was based on the plethora of cards and reward programs that we were offered to pledge our loyalty with a store chain in exchange for points and rewards.

Despite the freebies associated with the programs, don’t we all know that some of those perks come at a price? Homework!

When inflation started to rise, I admit I started watching flyers and offers even more carefully in order to try to stretch our food dollars, whether through sale prices or through bonus points which can later be redeemed like cash.

Fortunately, in retirement, I actually have time to read flyers carefully, cover to cover, rather than scan through them like a squirrel on a caffeine rush. Continue reading

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Ivy and the Roomba

Back in 2015, a few days after I adopted Ivy the Wonder Cat, it was time for my weekly housecleaning.

When I turned on the vacuum cleaner, it was like a scene from a feline version of “The Exorcist”. My adorable little kitten turned into the devil’s child, hissing at the vacuum cleaner and at me for the horrendous ordeal that was underway.

In a house with wall-to-wall carpeting, it’s not like I could avoid the vacuum cleaner, just to keep Miss Ivy from turning into a horror movie villainess. When it came to cleaning, the show must go on.

She eventually learned to cope by disappearing to a quiet corner of the house until the vacuuming was finished and the vacuum cleaner was put away.

Despite the advice of online pet psychologists suggesting that some cats eventually make peace with vacuum cleaners, unfortunately, this wasn’t meant to be in my household. Continue reading

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How Delightful Was Your Day?

A collection of lit tea lights, arranged in the shape of a heartI recently had the good fortune of watching a 2019 episode of Oprah Winfrey’s “Super Soul Sunday” in which she interviewed philanthropist Melinda Gates.

This episode in particular was a bit of an “a-ha”, validating moment for me when Ms. Gates explained that instead of choosing a New Year’s resolution, Ms. Gates prefers to choose a word of the year to guide her actions.

This CNBC article explains:
https://www.cnbc.com/2019/01/02/melinda-gates-doesnt-make-new-years-resolutions-heres-what-she-does-instead.html

The wow moment for me was that I had already been doing that for years!

When trying to slay the dragons of perfectionism, “don’t sweat the small stuff” and “let it go” figured prominently as my words/expressions of the year.

Regular readers might remember blog posts from 2017 and 2018 in which “inner peace” was my intention, to try to gain the upper hand over anxiety. Continue reading

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The Challenges with Changing Appointments

I don’t know if anyone else feels the same way, but what is it about changing an appointment that can put my stomach in knots, in ways that few events can?

At the root of the feeling is the simple fact that I take my commitments seriously. When I’ve made a commitment, I like to keep it. It’s a pride thing, for sure.

When life happens and a commitment needs to change, for some reason, deep down, I feel a sense of defeat… even when it’s not my fault… or nobody’s fault.

Even though I am confident in my negotiation skills and acknowledge that most people are pretty understanding, changing an appointment seems to have a triggering effect on me.

Does that feeling originate from my school days and the looming threat of losing points if an assignment was handed in late?

Could it come from the steep fines that certain businesses charge if 24 or 48 hours’ notice isn’t provided to change an appointment?

If the pandemic taught us anything, it’s that things can unexpectedly happen (… and quickly!) that can de-stabilize situations no matter how much we might like certainty and clarity. Continue reading

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