And how many of us have had moments in life thinking that this societal expectation is… well… a load of nonsense?
I think it would be safe to say that for a kid endowed with only a modest helping of patience, the advice holds some degree of merit.
For an only child who was all too happy to throw in the towel and give up a game after one unsuccessful try, it might also be value-added.
For a short, academically-oriented kid for whom athletics was never in his wheelhouse, the advice was probably reasonable… to a point.
In all three cases, that was me!
But as an adult when we are more in touch with our likes, our aptitudes, our affinities and our passions is “try, try again” without any footnotes, asterisks or any sense of boundaries really good advice?
Shouldn’t there be a cut-off point, when there really isn’t a point to continue? Continue reading